Today’s greying Gods and Goddesses are not going gently into that good night. There’s too much life to enjoy. Take Fern Mallis, the founder and face of Fashion Week. She left its helm when she was 61, took a breath and reinvented herself as president of her own fashion and design consultancy, a television and radio fashion personality and general industry representative. She was honored Monday for remaining in the game so long and well, by the Carter Burden Network (CBN), founded by Susan L. Burden, at its (newly named) Silver and White Night gala at the Mandarin Oriental Hotel. For 48 years, CBN has taken care of seniors at their centers, that brings them together for a variety of programs and hot meals, staving off the loneliness, isolation and degeration that old age can bring.